Archive for October, 2016
By Tracey Minella
October 31st, 2016 at 1:31 pm
I’ve got nothing.
Usually, I can muster up some tips to get you through the roughest days of the year. But this one is hard and I find the tips I’m brewing up are either too lame or too sinister to share. What makes Halloween so tough?
Halloween is the one universal children’s holiday…celebrated by all children. We all remember Halloween fondly, the costumes, the candy, the parties, the doorbells. The sugar-rush, shaving cream fights, and the eggs… for you rebels out there. Bolting from house to house for hours, until our feet dragged from the weight of a pillowcase that rivaled Santa’s sack. Mom and dad watching from the curb.
“Just one more house, PUH-LEEEZE?”
Halloween by its very nature is the most “in-your-face” of the holidays. Literally. It’s an onslaught. Even worse than Christmas or Chanukah… where you only have to deal with the kids in your immediate families. Today, kids are everywhere. All day and night. In the streets and at your door. You can’t hide. No place is safe.
Childhood memories of Halloween make us want to be kids again. And simultaneously makes us want to have our own so they can experience the same wonder. And so we can be the one at the curb today, the one who checks the bags for safety, the one posting 102 pictures to Facebook.
And not having it feels like a little pirate’s plastic dagger in the heart.
Another year that the dream of dressing up a little boy or girl in the perfect costume hasn’t come true. Another year to wait. How can I sugar-coat all this pain?
So I’m telling you to hide as best as you can. Stay off social media once the onslaught begins later. If you can go to an adults-only party or a romantic restaurant to escape children tonight, that’s great. But if it hurts to answer the door 372 times, lower the lights, put a bowl of treats out, and retire early… with a bag or two of your own favorite candy.
Or you could always open the door in the middle of an injection, screaming “TRICK!” and frighten the bejeebers out of the nineteenth Trump and Hillary that come knocking. (Oops, did I just say that out loud?)
The choice is yours. You can “let it go”… or you can be a witch if you want to. After all, it is Halloween.
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How do/did you handle Halloween when infertile?
By Tracey Minella
October 21st, 2016 at 12:42 pm
If you’ve done IVF without success or are thinking about doing IVF and would like to maximize your chances of conceiving, you’ll want to come to Long Island IVF’s Fertility Acupuncture Seminar on November 3, 2016 at 6:30-8:30 pm in our Melville office.
Dr. Kreiner will go over how this ancient therapy, when combined with in vitro fertilization (IVF), may boost pregnancy rates in some cases. Many patients are interested in this holistic therapy and are pleased to learn it costs less than $200 to add it to their IVF cycle.
Dr. Kreiner is the only reproductive endocrinologist in the region who is also a certified acupuncturist and this combined Western and Eastern medicine therapy is available to all Long Island IVF patients, not only his patients.
Come hear Dr. Kreiner tell of how he went back to school after three decades of building families on Long Island to learn TCM and acupuncture in an effort to offer couples—especially those for whom Western medicine alone has not yet produced a baby– every chance of conceiving through a blend of the best Western and Eastern medicine therapies.
Dr. Kreiner is now applying that acupuncture training in the IVF procedure room, both pre- and post-IVF transfer.
Why not see a live demonstration of fertility acupuncture for yourself in a relaxed and casual setting and learn more about how this exclusive, yet very affordable, natural therapy might help increase your chances of conceiving? Dr. Kreiner is very friendly and approachable, as is his special guest, James Vitale, LAc. Consider stopping by at the end of your workday to find out if this could be the missing piece to your fertility puzzle.
Register to attend this intimate discussion on Thursday, November 3, 2016 at 6:30 pm at our Melville office at 8 Corporate Center Drive, Melville, New York. The seminar is free, but seating is limited, so pre-registration is required.
We look forward to seeing you there. Please contact Lindsay Montello, Patient Services, at 631-752-0606 or LMontello@liivf.com with any questions.
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Can we tell Dr. Kreiner you’ll be there?
By Tracey Minella
October 18th, 2016 at 10:12 am
Do you think you might need an egg donor to build your family?
Have you ever met a woman who became a mom through egg donation? Wouldn’t it be helpful to hear about her experience and ask her questions in person knowing she once shared the same concerns you may have about the process?
Well, you won’t want to miss this seminar!
On Tuesday, November 1, 2016, at 7:00 pm, Long Island IVF will host a free event “New Beginnings Through Donor Egg” that could potentially change the course of your family-building journey. Our caring doctors and staff…and one of our donor recipient moms… will go over everything you could ever need to know about egg donation.
Women whose eggs have been compromised by advanced age, premature ovarian failure, failed IVF treatment, cancer, or poor egg quality should consider donor egg therapy. Long Island IVF offers many ways to build a family through the donor egg program. Gay men wanting biological children also need the help of an egg donor.
Admittedly, conceiving with donor eggs is rarely the first choice, but often is an acceptable alternative after weighing many personal, physical, emotional, psychological, and financial considerations. Decades of happy moms agree that using donor eggs was the best decision they ever made.
Maybe you’re not yet ready to act on the information you’ll receive. No problem. We’re just here to offer information and emotional support. So, why not attend the seminar and learn about Egg Donation as an opportunity to create your family? It’s the last seminar of the year and a perfect time to get educated and empowered about this powerful family-building option.
Victoria Loveland, RN & Donor Egg Nursing Coordinator, Aviva Zigelman, LCSW & Donor Egg Program Director, and Long Island IVF partner and reproductive endocrinologist Steven Brenner, MD will all be there to answer your questions. You can even speak to them privately if you’re more comfortable.
Long Island IVF offers several different egg donation options, including:
- Sole Recipient Fresh Egg Donation,
- Shared Recipient Fresh Egg Donation, and
- Frozen Egg Donation.
Each option offers its own unique benefits, costs, and other considerations. We have young, healthy, pre-screened, anonymous egg donors representing multiple ethnicities ready to help build your family. Or you can use a known donor if you prefer.
Register here for “New Beginnings Through Donor Egg”. Walk-ins are always welcome, too. Bring a friend or partner. Take that first step, even if you’re hesitant. We look forward to seeing you and answering your questions about the exciting option of egg donation.
Location: Long Island IVF 8 Corporate Center Drive, Suite 101, Melville, NY
Date: Tuesday November 1, 2016
Time: 7:00 pm- 9:00 pm
LONG ISLAND IVF: WINNER “BEST IN VITRO FERTILITY PRACTICE” in the Long Island Press’s “Best of Long Island 2015 and 2016″ contests. We are humbled and excited by the honor and thrilled to be nominated again for 2017 (voting is now through December 15, 2016)! Can we help you build your family as well?
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Will you be there? If you’d like to attend but can’t, please call anyway and ask for Vicky Loveland, so we can make other arrangements to help you.
By Tracey Minella
October 12th, 2016 at 6:26 pm
With an overwhelming feeling of thanksgiving in the cool autumn air, we’re eagerly preparing for Long Island IVF’s Family Event…a celebration of the births of our newest batch of special babies. We’re looking for the IVF, IUI, or other babies we’ve had a humble hand in helping to make their debut.
If you haven’t heard of it, the reunion is a fun-filled, camera-clicking day where our proud new parents show off their little miracles and our doctors and staff get to meet the latest additions to the LIIVF family.
We know it may be hard to hear about this event if you’re still on your journey to parenthood. And we’re very sorry for that, and look forward to seeing you at a future event real soon. But we want to be sure we haven’t missed any patient who is eligible to attend this year…
So… if your special little bundle was born between January 1, 2014 and today, please email Lindsay Montello at firstname.lastname@example.org so we can put you on the invitation list. (And if your baby’s older and you missed the last reunion…or you just really, really want to come this year, please email Lindsay anyway!) This call to action is to ensure that we don’t miss any patient who had a baby during this time frame, so please don’t assume we have your most recent contact information—drop us a quick confirming email so you’ll get your invitation.
Meanwhile… SAVE THE DATE. This year’s event will be held on Friday, November 11, 2016 from noon until 2:30 pm! More exciting details will come in your invitation.
Here’s a bit of nostalgia and Long Island IVF history: Back in the old days, the reunion was held outside the old Long Island IVF office in Port Jefferson, behind Mather Hospital. As the years went on and the babies multiplied quickly, we needed a huge fire truck with a soaring bucket to take our group photo of all the parents and their babies. Shortly after the 10th reunion, space limitations unfortunately necessitated limiting the attendees to the most recent crop of newborns.
We’re so looking forward to seeing you again and meeting your new little pumpkins!
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Have you been to a reunion? What’s the best part?
Thanks to all our wonderful patients who repeatedly nominate us and vote us in as Long Island’s “Best In Vitro Fertility Practice”.
After winning the title for 2015 and 2016, LONG ISLAND IVF was again nominated BEST IN VITRO FERTILITY PRACTICE in the Long Island Press’s “Best of Long Island 2017″ contest. If you’d like to vote to help us win, you can vote once per day from now through Dec 15 here: http://bestof.longislandpress.com/voting-open/
By Tracey Minella
October 11th, 2016 at 6:29 pm
Long Island IVF has been proudly building families for the LGBT community for decades and we are mindful and supportive of LGBT rights and days of significance to the community.
Today, we mark National Coming Out Day—a day to support the men, women, and gender-fluid among us who are, in some cases, summoning the courage to “come out” to their friends, families, and others and begin to live their lives in an open and true to themselves way. Some of these people are teens, or even younger and sadly, the threats against them from various sources are very real. Laws may change, but people often do not…or at least not as quickly.
Long Island IVF is a long-time friend to the LGBT community, and has partnered with the Long Island’s LGBT Network to present seminars specifically designed to address the unique family-building needs of the LGBT community. The next free seminar will be on October 25, 2016 at the Long Island IVF Melville office. Register here.
Reproductive options for lesbian couples will be discussed including topics such as donor sperm insemination, in vitro fertilization, reciprocal IVF, use of gestational carriers, donor eggs, and more. The limitations and the workup for women wishing to donate eggs and/or carry a pregnancy will be covered. Surrogacy and gestational carriers for gay male couples will also be addressed. In addition, the fertility preservation options available to transgender people prior to transitioning will be covered. The social, legal, financial, and medical issues will be discussed.
If you are…or love…a member of the LGBT community, you won’t want to miss this information–packed seminar.
Long Island recognizes that your needs and rights to parenthood are universal, but that the approach to your care and particular fertility obstacles is unique. Our staff, some of whom are members of– or parents of –the LGBT community themselves, is sensitive to your needs and eager to help you build your family.
You may have come out today. Why not come meet us in two weeks?
If you would like to attend our next seminar, please register here.
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By Steven Brenner MD
October 9th, 2016 at 5:22 pm
A diagnosis of breast cancer is one of the most challenging health issues a person could face. This diagnosis is even more devastating to the woman who desires to have children the future. Treatments for the breast cancer may have harmful effects on the woman’s ability to conceive by adversely affecting the health of her eggs. In addition, the hormonal treatments frequently used to help an individual conceive have the potential to worsen the breast cancer.
There is often turmoil surrounding the diagnosis of breast cancer. The individual, her family and physicians are appropriately focused on getting rapid effective treatment and survival. The issue of fertility may not be thought of until a chemotherapeutic plan is just about to start or has already been initiated.
Since there are fertility preserving options for the individuals facing breast cancer treatment, these options should be considered. If time allows eggs or embryos may be frozen for future use. The use of such procedures depends on many factors, primarily, will such treatment have a negative effect on the woman’s disease. If in the patient’s and oncologist’s judgment fertility preservation is an option it should occur rapidly to allow for the timely treatment of the breast cancer.
The key is for the oncologist and patient to be aware and discuss the potential for fertility conservation treatment prior to the start of chemotherapy. This opportunity for discussion may be lost in the unrest that surrounds the diagnosis. Breast cancer awareness month, October, 2016, creates a platform to raise these issues and help both individuals and health care providers come more cognizant of available treatments and the importance of timing these treatments to maximize future fertility.
Long Island IVF offers women facing cancer the fertility preservation options of elective embryo- or egg-freezing prior to undergoing chemotherapy. This enables the woman to safeguard some of her eggs from the adverse effects of chemotherapy by retrieving and freezing them before she begins her cancer treatment. Her frozen eggs or embryos will be there for her use in family-building once her cancer battle is behind her. For more information, please contact our office at 877-838-BABY.
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Would you consider fertility preservation or mention the option to a friend facing a cancer diagnosis?
By Tracey Minella
October 4th, 2016 at 10:03 am
Tagged with bi-sexual parenting, creating LGBT families, donor egg, Fertility, gay parenting, Infertility, LBGT, lesbian parenting, LGBT family building, LGBT family seminar, LGBT parenting, Long Island IVF, Melissa Brisman, Reproductive Possibilities, Satu Kuokkanen MD, Steven Brenner MD, Surrogacy, transgender parenting, Trying to Conceive
Long Island IVF has been helping the LGBT community become parents for decades. So, if you’re thinking about having a baby and want to know all of your family building options, you won’t want to miss this event!
We’ve partnered up with the LGBT Network to bring you a quality LGBT family building seminar on Tuesday, October 25, 2016 from 6:30-8:30 pm at the Long Island IVF Melville office located at 8 Corporate Center Drive, Melville, New York.
In about two hours, the speakers at our seminar will answer everything you ever wanted to know about today’s many LGBT Family-Building options. Two of our reproductive endocrinologists, Dr. Steven Brenner, and Dr. Satu Kuokkanen, along with other key Long Island IVF team members will introduce you to the fascinating world of assisted reproductive technology and specifically how it’s used to help the LGBT community become parents. In addition, our Donor Egg Coordinator, Vicky Loveland, MS, RN, and Melissa Brisman, owner and founder of Reproductive Possibilities http://www.reproductivepossibilities.com/ will be there.
LGBT family-building is different in many ways from so-called “traditional” family-building. As a practice made up of both LGBT and non-LGBT employees, we truly understand the nuances that make your parenthood quest unique to you, whether you are gay, lesbian, transsexual, or bi-sexual. Believing that everyone has the right to become a parent, LIIVF is committed to using the best available medical technologies to help you overcome or circumvent biological obstacles to parenthood.
Whether we met at LI Pridefest 2016 in June and you’d like to learn more about our LGBT Family Building program at Long Island IVF, or this is the first time you’ll be meeting us, we hope you’ll join us and the LGBT Network at our Melville office to learn about the many ways we can help you achieve your dream of parenthood.
For more information and to register for this free event, please go to https://www.eventbrite.com/e/building-families-in-the-lgbt-community-tickets-25604913987
Need to reach someone? You can email email@example.com.
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Will you be attending the “Building Families in the LGBT Community” seminar? Do you have any specific questions or particular topics you want to see covered?
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Long Island IVF-WINNER: Best in Vitro Fertility Practice 2015 AND 2016
It is with humble yet excited hearts that we announce that Long Island IVF was voted the Best In Vitro Fertility Practice in the Best Of Long Island 2015 and 2016 contest…two years in a row!
The doctors, nurses, embryologists, and the rest of the Long Island IVF staff are so proud of this honor and so thankful to every one of you who took the time to vote. From the moms juggling LIIVF babies… to the dads coaching LIIVF teens…to the parents sending LIIVF adults off to college or down the aisles… to the LIIVF patients still on their journeys to parenthood who are confident in the care they’re receiving…we thank you all.
We love what we’ve gotten to do every day more than 28 years…build families. If you are having trouble conceiving, please call us. Many of our nurses and staff were also our patients, so we really do understand what you’re going through. And we’d like to help. 631-752-0606.